...and never noticed?
Well fear not, there's a couple of things you can do to not miss them.
First of all, make sure you have set your browser to allow pop ups on our site.
Then go to you Profile - Preferences
Check the option Display a pop-up window on new private messages
(I think it's set to default, but just in case it's not)
Now you shouldn't miss one single private message
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